Challenging and Tough are the synonyms to a long - distance relationship. But its not impossible.Majority of the relations break-up due to the long distance between you and me. Though it is said Love is blind but its not always.In a long- distance relationship , people tend to be more possessive for each other because they dont know when they will meet each other. You always nag for small things in such relationships though you say you trust him, but deep down the heart you always the fear of losing him.When you see couples around you feel depressed as you would like him or her to be there with you. Relationships are hard to maintain but when it comes to long-distance it is hardest, the main barrier between the couple is communication.It becomes monotonous to talk everyday on phone or to chat. Sometimes when you want to say something you cant, sometimes when you want him or her you cant, there are many compromises which are to be made in a long distance relation. Its not everyones cup of tea ,you have to be patient enough to understand him or her.All you can do is to plan out properly and put in your extra efforts.Its very good to be in such kind of relations as in a way you are free but still theres someone at the other end for you. Most of the people face problem of giving space to each-other , they dont understand that in a long distance relation they are already given space.This is because sometimes it becomes difficult for you to trust the person at the other end.When you want that person to hear you at the very moment but he's not available that brings a robust strain of frustration.Those are the worst days of ones life when you feel lonely.It is testifying time of your love and it strengthens the love between two.In such a relationship the more you talk the more you know each other. It is the time when you want the smallest information about each other, though it may annoy you as you might feel your space is being invaded. Those small fights in relationship make love stronger, fights are actually essence of love.Phone calls become dull and you want to meet each other but due to other important priorities in life, some how you cant meet each other. This is what is a long distance relationship all about.
Fights,hardship,distance,communication barrier, understanding but above all is the LOVE that keeps you together.
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